Paul Elam is the founder and publisher of A Voice for Men, which has been called many things (pause. they will laugh and distress) by many people with very different ways viewing the world. Regardless, AVFM is indisputably the most prominent and well travelled provider of non-ideological opinion and science on issues faced by men and boys. He is also the co author, with Dr. Tara Palmatier of “Say Goobye to Crazy.” A book written for women who find themselves and their children thrown into chaos and dysfunction in a culture that has blinded itself to their ordeals.